Trans 101
Educating "civilians" is an intregal part of my existence on occasion. One of those occasions was last night. A group of three men and one woman were sitting close to me. I knew very quickly they knew I was trans and heard a few of the not so complimentary quotes. Typically, when something like this happens I will just stay. If they don't like me that is their problem. My rule is if I don't cause any problems for the place I'm in, I'm OK. In a short period of time, both the woman in the group and I had to use the restroom. As we washed up she was playing with her hair and said nothing. We left and went back to our seats. In a shorter period of time she switched her seat to the empty one beside me and the questions started. The usual ones. What gender am I. Why do I live like this etc. No problem. I attempted to explain a gender fluid existence and the fact I was more female than male between the ears. She then shifted the conversation into wanting to se