Here we go kids! Another visit to our astrological signs from theFrisky. First, my Libra sign is rather subdued this week:
(September 23-October 22): It’s all about keeping your word. Building trust is a sport at times and if you want to achieve the level you want, it’s going to take time. Like anything that has true substance, you have to let it settle. Be willing to lay low in the passenger seat and have your actions speak for themselves, as you keep it real with your priorities.
No problem! The way my partner Liz drives, I lay low in the passenger seat anyway!!! Our guest sign this week comes from the sign of Aries , which seems to be a good match - to sit back and watch from the passenger seat!
(March 21-April 19): When a door opens, step in — like when sexual tension springs up in a platonic place. Yes, go hog wild on all the no strings love you can get now. However, don’t be the aggressor, because clumsiness will plague you from being as smooth as you’d like. Let them ignite the flame and they will!
If you didn't see your sign, don't pout and boo hoo which will run your fancy new mascara! Go here for yours!
Tuesday, December 9, 2014
Monday, December 8, 2014
What Will the Neighbor's Say?
One topic I don't believe we have covered much at all here in Cyrsti's Condo is how most of us "made a break" for it past the nosy neighbors-when we were/are beginning to make the first steps out in the world to experience this "girl thing."
Looking back, I would do everything the smart way by going to neighboring larger cities and dressing there. But then play the odds of getting caught by venturing out in my home town. (60,000 population) The more I found I felt increasingly natural in the feminine world-the more I threw caution to the wind. Actually, my "sneaking" around caused me untold suffering in my marriage when I was caught.
Years later, of course it's a different world for me now, but I still wonder on occasion, what the neighbors do think! My house I own and am trying to sell-changes out neighbors every six months, so I really don't care. Interestingly, there used to be a kid who lived down the alley who around Halloween made a point of going out of his way to speak to me. I thought he may have had ulterior motives when one evening after school he showed up wearing a long blond wig. Of course, a month later, he had moved.
More interestingly yet, has been the last year or so I have spent down at Liz's house. For one, her neighbors do not move and have seen the various "shades" of me. By "shades" I mean from total androgynous guy to transgender woman. Bottom line is, I don't care what they think and Liz always "pronouns" me feminine when she speaks with them.
I know one has to reach a certain point in their transition to feel the same way I do and per norm I have paid my dues to get here-but- I'm fascinated at the number of experiences I read from other cross dressers or possible transgender women. Yet another facet of our community which is unbelievably complex and diverse!
Looking back, I would do everything the smart way by going to neighboring larger cities and dressing there. But then play the odds of getting caught by venturing out in my home town. (60,000 population) The more I found I felt increasingly natural in the feminine world-the more I threw caution to the wind. Actually, my "sneaking" around caused me untold suffering in my marriage when I was caught.
Years later, of course it's a different world for me now, but I still wonder on occasion, what the neighbors do think! My house I own and am trying to sell-changes out neighbors every six months, so I really don't care. Interestingly, there used to be a kid who lived down the alley who around Halloween made a point of going out of his way to speak to me. I thought he may have had ulterior motives when one evening after school he showed up wearing a long blond wig. Of course, a month later, he had moved.
More interestingly yet, has been the last year or so I have spent down at Liz's house. For one, her neighbors do not move and have seen the various "shades" of me. By "shades" I mean from total androgynous guy to transgender woman. Bottom line is, I don't care what they think and Liz always "pronouns" me feminine when she speaks with them.
I know one has to reach a certain point in their transition to feel the same way I do and per norm I have paid my dues to get here-but- I'm fascinated at the number of experiences I read from other cross dressers or possible transgender women. Yet another facet of our community which is unbelievably complex and diverse!
Sunday, December 7, 2014
Cyrsti's Condo- The "Balls of the Belle?"
Today, we are featuring a montage of pictures from the cross dressing event extraordinaire-the Atlanta Cotillion :
I have never been, but from the outside looking in with pictures, the event seems to be intermixed with a liberal mix of gay men, cross dressers, and even some trans girls mixed in!
Cyrsti's Condo "Sunday Edition"
"Ker Plunk!" Another Condo weekly wrap up has hit your virtual front porch! Curl up with your Cup o Joe and lets get started!
Page 1.- The Week That was-or Wasn't. Such a week it was! I really don't where to even start. I'm thinking an important place though, is my moving story. My plan to get moved in with my partner Liz within 6 months or so and my old house on the market and sold-took a giant step forward. Briefly, that is not an move across town-but one involving a two hour drive.
Moving was not the only thing weighing on my mind this week. It seems the Veteran's Administration "powers to be" at the Dayton (Ohio) hospital center have gone back to where I fought them years ago and denied payment to an outside provider for my endocrinologist needs. Which (by the way) is illegal for them to do. So here we go again.
Page 1.- The Week That was-or Wasn't. Such a week it was! I really don't where to even start. I'm thinking an important place though, is my moving story. My plan to get moved in with my partner Liz within 6 months or so and my old house on the market and sold-took a giant step forward. Briefly, that is not an move across town-but one involving a two hour drive.
Moving was not the only thing weighing on my mind this week. It seems the Veteran's Administration "powers to be" at the Dayton (Ohio) hospital center have gone back to where I fought them years ago and denied payment to an outside provider for my endocrinologist needs. Which (by the way) is illegal for them to do. So here we go again.
Page 2.- A Star Arrives! Last week marked the appearance of Laverne Cox in our area of Ohio and Northern Kentucky. I was fortunate to see her Tuesday and was inspired and impressed. It turns out, I met a couple of young transgender men and women in Cincinnati who were impressed too. Liz was doing a craft show here and put out many of her hand beaded items. To the left you can see an example of a transgender logo beret she made me for my hair last Spring. The picture is taken of me from my best angle! At any rate, an obviously gender non forming young couple wondered by and were drawn to the beret. Finally, the trans guy said quietly-they knew the transgender symbol and were trans! I was sitting to the rear of the table, for once being quiet and out of the way so I just raised my hand. Liz said, "So is she" and pointed my direction. From that point on, we had quite the chat, oblivious to the "civilians" around us. I wondered later, what they thought about phrases and words about testosterone shots, top surgery, HRT and transitioning. How wonderful it was we could do it!!!! It turns out, they too had seen Laverne Cox at Northern Kentucky University recently.
By the way, the trans guy is ordering one of Liz's beaded handmade beret's for his Mom as a Christmas gift-with a rainbow where the Yin-Yang symbol is centered on mine. Just contact me if you have an idea and want her to make one for you. Please remember they are hand crafted and I will give you a price.
Page 3.- Stealth, Football and Mo! Our back page today is going to be brief (maybe). In the typical New York elitist media style- on the CBS News show "Face the Nation" one of the experts quoted the old "Texas" football coach who said when you pass the football-three things can happen-all bad. The coach was Woody Hayes, decidedly NOT from Texas, but Ohio State. Then again, when I lived in the NYC area for a couple years, the only part of the country the New Yorkers acknowledged was Texas. To them, my native Ohio didn't register. Even though I do pay attention to the "East Coast" media bias-I hold it all at arm's length out here in the frontier!
However, here in the frontier, we do play football, and yes our Ohio State Buckeyes tore up some Wisconsin Badger last night. Liz and I watched the game in a sports bar here in Cincinnati which is not exactly the strongest Buckeye stronghold in the state-but OK none the less.
Being self centered, sure the victory was great but the local circumstances around it at the tavern were even better. More later.
You all are the best!!!! Thanks as always for stopping by Cyrsti's Condo!!! Have a great week!!!
Saturday, December 6, 2014
Cyrsti's Condo "OOOOPS"
Dammit! I just knew this wasn't going to work well when my little sister came home early-with her new camera!!!! And, I'm in Mom's clothes!
Steppin Up and Out
Many of you Cyrsti's Condo readers know of my belief I am largely successful in my mtf transgender transition efforts because of Momma Karma. What I pay forward into the community comes back three fold to help me.
If this latest outreach from the Dayton, Ohio LGBTQ organization works, I will have a chance to take another nice dose of positive karma.
Recently, the group has noticed the "T" in their name was silent and they knew very little about us and more importantly, wanted to reach out to their perception of a growing, largely invisible community of transgender women and men. Wow! (The Dayton LGBT group was partially responsible for bringing Laverne Cox to the area.)
So, where the deal stands now is, the group is trying to put together an initial brainstorming session with three of us. The final goal is to provide support locally to trans individuals.
Now all I have to do is find a brain that fits!
If this latest outreach from the Dayton, Ohio LGBTQ organization works, I will have a chance to take another nice dose of positive karma.
Recently, the group has noticed the "T" in their name was silent and they knew very little about us and more importantly, wanted to reach out to their perception of a growing, largely invisible community of transgender women and men. Wow! (The Dayton LGBT group was partially responsible for bringing Laverne Cox to the area.)
So, where the deal stands now is, the group is trying to put together an initial brainstorming session with three of us. The final goal is to provide support locally to trans individuals.
Now all I have to do is find a brain that fits!
Friday, December 5, 2014
Just a Thought
Perhaps you have heard of generic women who carry their phone in their bra...Min and Liz are two examples.
Lately, my phone has been re dialing people I txt- you know, it has to be the phone's fault. At any rate, chances are if I redial my partner Liz, she would ask me if I "boob called her."
Then, last week I got a txt from my transgender woman friend Racquel. After I txted her of course she got a call-back. She asked me if I had "butt called her?'
Well, obviously, Racquel needs to make the jump towards generic status by carrying her phone in her bra.
I need to also- I need all the help with the girls I can get!
Lately, my phone has been re dialing people I txt- you know, it has to be the phone's fault. At any rate, chances are if I redial my partner Liz, she would ask me if I "boob called her."
Then, last week I got a txt from my transgender woman friend Racquel. After I txted her of course she got a call-back. She asked me if I had "butt called her?'
Well, obviously, Racquel needs to make the jump towards generic status by carrying her phone in her bra.
I need to also- I need all the help with the girls I can get!
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