Saturday, February 6, 2016

Listen Closely?

One thing I don't think I have ever talked about here in Cyrsti's Condo is voice training. 

It's probably the next wall I have to hit and go over...and I am afraid to do it.

Why? Even though my friends and family tell me I'm fine the way I am, I am fairly sure they are being nice...and I know they are being nice when anyone talks to me on the phone.

My solution is, since I don't have the budget for voice training lessons is-an inexpensive voice recorder I can use when I drive the four hour round trip back and forth to the VA. To hell with the music on the radio...I want to hear me!

Seriously, I think I can improve on the ideas I have to improve my voice.

Friday, February 5, 2016

We Got Mail!

OK Kids, here we go...Pat, I hope you feel better!!!! Feeling as bad as you do can't be any fun at Connie's age.

Speaking of Connie, no I had no intention of even intimating how you dressed attracted whomever. It's just we have discussed several times over our past about finding ourselves around a group of embarrassing cross dressers out for a night on the town. I was referencing that somewhat. 

****Disclaimer time--being trans (or a cross dresser) does not give you a hall pass for being an idiot. Ask me, I have put myself in the wrong place at the wrong time (wearing the wrong outfit) and barely making my escape in my high heels. I think I have done everything wrong in the book at least once-except trying to glue silicone breast forms on my chest with silicone bathroom caulk from the hardware store-or trashing a women's room in a gay venue. (There were plenty of lesbians not too happy.) 
Paula

Paula!!!! Don't you think I would dearly love to have coffee with you in London! The problem is with my budget I would end up in London, Ohio (about 50 miles)

Connie, I do understand you may have one or two "coffee stands" in Seattle. Again I wish I had the cash to fly out and sample your fave "barista".

After all of that, I do appreciate all of your feedbacks. Sometime it's a lonely world here on this key board!

I will stand by my original theory though that the person who was going to meet me for coffee had a rarity-my phone number and she could have backed out easily at any time. That's the only reason I was aggravated. The last thing I would been was mad...as it was my dogs loved the extra walk they got. And, I would not cared if she said she would be meeting me "in drab."

I guess I'm not as mean as write!  

Cyrsti's Condo "From the Hart"

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"I know rules are necessary-just not necessarily for me!" 
Cyrsti Hart 

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