Damn it's COLD where I live here in Ohio and as bad or worse other places. It was down to a "balmy" -25 degrees wind chill last night. Actually, this is my second winter transitioning into the "polar vortex" or whatever else the weather peeps are calling it this year. It's so cold here-the eggs are freezing inside the chicken!
I have whined forever here in Cyrsti's Condo on how HRT ruined my body's thermostat. I used to be a "furnace" now I'm a freezer which presents obvious problems. One of the truest points of transitioning is when you get to the point of choosing a wardrobe for everyday wear. It was a huge realization for me when all of the sudden I needed clothes for every occasion, everyday and all of the sudden I was wearing them so much, they were wearing out. "Back in the day" when I was going out a couple days a week as a cross dresser, my fave outfits lasted forever it seemed.
This year I have been farther out in front of the frozen curve. I am set with fleece lined leggings, boots, sweaters and coats for the winter. My problem is planning ahead for me involves about a week or so. It's difficult for me to figure out what I am going to buy at the grocery store to eat tomorrow. On the other hand, it seems I have an innate sense of style colors for myself, which work well with winter fashion. (Don't ask me to pick colors for your house though!)
Also, I have decided to think a little farther ahead - warmer weather and spring fashions can't be that far away! Excuse me, I have to head out and see if my car will start!!!
Thursday, January 8, 2015
Wednesday, January 7, 2015
Remembering Leelah on the Radio
Recently, I have made a mention of my invite to join in on a radio discussion of LGBTQ suicide on a radio station close to Leelah Alcorn's hometown.
Thursday (tomorrow) WAIF radio in Cincinnati, will have a diverse set of individuals (including me) along with a local (conservative Christian) minister concerning LGBT issues with the church and families. The discussion will be moderated by a therapist, Thomas Cox, from NKY. (Northern Kentucky University) The show runs from 12-2 (EST) and you can hear it on the link above.
So, if I can manage to not get kicked off before I start, maybe I can add a bit of reality to the discussion.We know the reality of being transgender is not a choice it's a need but most religions don't. I simply don't understand why, probably as much as they don't understand me. But, they need to know I am not their enemy and I deserve the same respect. If they think I am going to hell-well- I may think I could see them there.
Call me an alarmist but religion in this country is now following politics into a highly polarized state, which is not good. All of the sudden, (it seems more and more) if you are a conservative politically it follows you have to be a socially/religiously conservative person. And, whatever happened to a loving caring God?
The only thing I do know is tomorrow we won't be able to come up with all the big answers we need. At the least though, it's going to be nice to talk about them.
Thursday (tomorrow) WAIF radio in Cincinnati, will have a diverse set of individuals (including me) along with a local (conservative Christian) minister concerning LGBT issues with the church and families. The discussion will be moderated by a therapist, Thomas Cox, from NKY. (Northern Kentucky University) The show runs from 12-2 (EST) and you can hear it on the link above.
So, if I can manage to not get kicked off before I start, maybe I can add a bit of reality to the discussion.We know the reality of being transgender is not a choice it's a need but most religions don't. I simply don't understand why, probably as much as they don't understand me. But, they need to know I am not their enemy and I deserve the same respect. If they think I am going to hell-well- I may think I could see them there.
Call me an alarmist but religion in this country is now following politics into a highly polarized state, which is not good. All of the sudden, (it seems more and more) if you are a conservative politically it follows you have to be a socially/religiously conservative person. And, whatever happened to a loving caring God?
The only thing I do know is tomorrow we won't be able to come up with all the big answers we need. At the least though, it's going to be nice to talk about them.
Cyrsti's Condo "Thought of the Day"
This was passed along from my long time friend Connie Malone (Oregon Duck fan and all) who originally suggested I write a blog and told me how to spell it. She also coached me through many of my initial attacks from the trans nazi's on a certain social site we were on. You know, the ones who put themselves farther up the transgender food chain - "Trans-ness" to them is determined by operations and "time served."Thanks Connie!
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