The Disappearing CrossDresser?
Saturday I was supposed to meet another of the 'family' for lunch. To be fair, I don't how she identifies; crossdresser, transgender, or "gurl". We were to meet in a very well known coffee and sandwich shop (not called Starbucks) but for whatever reason, coffee with her never happened.
Since I had arranged my day to meet her, yes I was more disturbed than I normally am. If you are backing off-tell me. Won't be the first time. Saturday's deal is not the point of this post though.
I began to wonder how many under the LGBT - CD umbrella over the years I have met (even if on Facebook or comments to Cyrsti's Condo) who have faded away. Or abruptly disappeared.
Of course I have several ideas like:
I guess I should look at the point of this blog as a positive influence on potential LGBTQ family members. If I can shed any light on the process, my work is complete.
Just one thing, if you want to meet me for coffee-don't stand me up-please.
Since I had arranged my day to meet her, yes I was more disturbed than I normally am. If you are backing off-tell me. Won't be the first time. Saturday's deal is not the point of this post though.
I began to wonder how many under the LGBT - CD umbrella over the years I have met (even if on Facebook or comments to Cyrsti's Condo) who have faded away. Or abruptly disappeared.
Of course I have several ideas like:
- Ill health or death
- The wife or family found out
- They grew tired of the fantasy of being the second coming of Marilyn Monroe
- The sheer amount of work to make a transition got to be too much
- Financial resources
I guess I should look at the point of this blog as a positive influence on potential LGBTQ family members. If I can shed any light on the process, my work is complete.
Just one thing, if you want to meet me for coffee-don't stand me up-please.
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