Watching
Over the years it's a good thing I wasn't profiled as some sort of a perve or stalker. I spent countless hours noticing the small things women do to be... well...women. As with anything else, I gave the process a grading system which I called pass /fail (no pun intended) and many females I knew never passed as women. In fact, one of my favorite sayings here in Cyrsti's Condo is males and females are born, men and women are socialized . A very close friend said it best years ago to me when she lamented she just couldn't understand why many mothers weren't teaching their daughters to be women anymore. Of course, like the rest of you, my Mom didn't teach me and the greatest majority of my feminine lessons were self taught. Many of the lessons weren't so pretty but I learned and moved on. Sometimes these days, I'm surprised how much I still observe genetic women. Sure I wonder how some got out of the house looking like that, but now I try to understan