Integration

Every once in a while I giggle (to my self) when I notice one of the cross dressers I happen to be around becoming a little too "outgoing" with an outfit or actions. I add "to my self" because in the past I have gotten into trouble with my thoughts. Why? Years ago, I was told by my deceased wife I didn't have any real idea of what being a woman was all about. All I wanted to do was to be the "pretty, pretty princess." You know what? She was right. My disclaimer here is...it's fine to be the pretty princess but don't think it is representative of living in society full time as a transgender woman. It just isn't. Fortunately these days, there are many paths opening up which can aid your integration into mainstream society. Both Paula and Connie have comments. From Paula: "I fear that all too many of us spend way too much time with other trans people. I didn't go through all this so I could join an exclusive club! I want