"FABULOUSCONNIEDEEJanuary 30, 2018 at 1:16 PM
Thursday, February 1, 2018
Take That!...Bitches!
"FABULOUSCONNIEDEEJanuary 30, 2018 at 1:16 PM
2 comments:
- Tanit said...
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All I can say about this jaw-dropping story is that I would DIE if those idiots did that to me. I would never associate with them in ANY way, shape or form after that since I am not a person that could ever get over a "prank" of this caliber. OMG - the thoughtlessness of it! Good on you for taking it like a "man" though, I couldn't... Hugs,
Tanit - February 1, 2018 at 9:37 PM
- Connie said...
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Tanit, I don't think that I took anything at all. I reacted to it as the strong woman I was becoming at the time. Just prior to my meeting with this group, it was necessary for me to use a cash machine outside of a nearby bank. I was tentative about doing it, and I waited in my car until I decided the coast was clear for me to not have to encounter another person. As fate would have it, though, as I stood facing the machine, I heard a man's voice behind me asking, "Excuse me m'am, do you have a light?" When I turned around to face him, he immediately said, "Oh, sir, do you have a light?" That was much more devastating than was the incident with the bullying cross dressers I experienced later. It was the first close-up encounter I had had with anyone, and my biggest fear of being read and outed became a reality almost immediately.
Please read my comment to Cyrsti's next post for more of my feelings about this subject. - February 2, 2018 at 2:34 PM
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The first time I went out with this group (about ten years ago) was also the first time I'd ever gone into any public establishment. My reluctance to use the ladies room for the first time had me reluctant to use it along with anyone else, as well (including, if not especially, anyone in the group I was with). While I was sitting safely in the stall, one of the members bought off a female server to walk into the ladies room and yell out, "Hey, there's a man in the ladies room!" I recognized it immediately as a prank, and I re-entered the main room with my head held high and walked confidently back to the table. Of course, the group was laughing and applauding, but I did not let it phase me. As I took my seat, I said, "I knew that there were no men in the ladies room because none of you were with me there."
Bullying can come from even the most unexpected people. I wrote this off as a sophomoric initiation prank to a "sorority" that I quickly learned I did not want to belong. Not only did I not want to belong, I simply did not belong at all. If nothing else, that experience confirmed what I had begun to understand about myself - that I was not merely a man in a dress.
I could have qualified that last statement with "not that there is anything wrong with that." Sometimes there is something wrong with that, however. Bad behavior has nothing to do with gender identity in any form."