My fondest desire for all of you is you have an accepting family this Holiday. Too many transgender women and trans men just don't.
Even after I was old enough to understand completely why I would rather have a doll for Christmas rather than the BB Gun I got, I still took years to understand the complete ramifications for coming out of the closet as transgender.
After I did a couple of years ago, I was lucky and only lost half of of family. My brother would not stand up to his in laws. Ironically, I gained two sets of family with my partner Liz and my daughter and her in laws. Turns out change was good after all.
As I said, Best Wishes during this Yule Holiday Season!