My friend Shelle lle" was kind enough to comment on my "Dork" post here in Cysti's Condo and to compliment me. So nice!As always my overactive noggin began to think about the socialization of our inner selves...in our cases mostly girl selves.
To the uninitiated, females are the warm and fuzzy side of humans. In reality, their interactions with each other are much more complex than males and often as a group women do have a stronger internal toughness. I found out early on to always be on guard for a negative transphobic public interactions from women.
What really surprised me though were the negative reactions on line from transsexual women who had gone through SRS.
I try so hard to use these negatives to socialize my inner dork. They are wonderful role models of who not to be. One problem I do have is a genetic switch of sorts from my Mom to overcome. Of course I love and respect her for what she was but "warm and fuzzy" does not come to mind. She was a great role model on how not to understand others.
As I throw all these life experiences in a blender (including male ones) hopefully the result will be healthy.
I am a believer in reincarnation and hopefully heading to a higher level after this life. Hopefully, all this craziness will get me there!
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