Tuesday, January 5, 2021

"Mo" Music

 I'm sure some of you more "mature" Cyrsti's Condo readers will remember your favorite "Top 40" radio station which was always claiming to play the most music when in fact, they were cramming in the most commercials at the same time.

I worked at one of those radio stations as an announcer/disc jockey for nearly five years before moving on to another profession. It turns out during my career, I nearly missed working with other transgender women. One in Thailand who I met briefly later and one in Springfield, Ohio who I never met. Later on I wondered if the profession itself was what attracted transgender people. 

After hearing from Connie and Paula, I wonder the same thing about musicians as I know another transgender musician locally. 

In addition, you will learn from Paula how she witnessed another "coming out" of sorts during her ongoing career as a musician:

"My experience as a trans musician has probably been a bit different to most, for a number of reasons, I play mostly as an amateur, and I play in orchestras, concert and brass bands. I came out rather dramatically https://paula-paulasplace.blogspot.com/2014/06/still-good-day.html but so far have had only positive reactions from other musicians and audiences alike. I am quite sure that I have not got a couple of conducting jobs I've auditioned for because of my gender identity, but is that because I'm trans or because I'm a woman?

Curiously a pro "German" Band I used to play in (you might call them polka and waltz bands) had a rolling membership in all there were a bout 30 of us, but we would generally go out as a five or six piece (sometimes up to three a night!). We had a very good trombone player, who was clearly having issues, he was ultra competitive and could verge on aggressive. We later found out that he was trans and gave up playing after she transitioned, I have often thought that if either of us had felt able to say anything we might both have been saved a lot of angst."

FYI, Paula is located "across the pond" in Great Britain. Thanks for the comment!

Venessa

Recently I posted here in Cyrsti's Condo about a friend I have known for awhile now who I met the first time at a cross dresser - transgender support group meeting I attended. She appeared to be very shy and reserved about the daunting process she was facing during her Mtf gender transition. 

She was facing a long road ahead since she was determined about coming out at work and doing the best she could to save her marriage and family connections. 

Over time, I followed her transgender transition and the difficulties she encountered. Through it all, she was resolute in her journey. As we all know it's a marathon, not a sprint and once we think we have something figured out, something else pops up to push us backwards. 

To show you how secure she is about her transgender transition, she even provided a montage of pictures recently on here Facebook page (below)


 Also, I need to point out Venessa has overcome the obstacles of being tall and working in a male dominated industry. 

I don't think she realizes what an inspiration she is to transgender women everywhere. 

You Go! Girl!!
 

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