Recently she posted her transition ideas along with a drawing from Hannah's McKnight's illustrated transgender blog.The key point to a transition is when you don't think about gender. You are simply you. An example from me was one of the last meetings I went to. The group issued name tags asking for preferred pronouns. I put down her, she and me (not really). On the other hand one my preferences is not to be ever called a "female" which I consider a physical birth issue.
So, I agree with Paula and Hannah totally and ironically picked up on the barista word from Hannah.
The other night I was waiting in line for a coffee from the "big time" coffee chain who currently is in trouble from the "radical right" for what they are putting on Christmas themed coffee cups. (Get a life.)
I waited, I waited and I waited some more for only two people ahead of me. The first guy, I don't know what his deal was, except he ordered some special blend from the peak of Mt. Everest and never shut up. The person in front of me had a visitor while we were in line waiting to celebrating another birthday and then again on the phone while she was ordering. What the hell! Did she forget the order?
By the time it was really my turn to order, I was thinking death may be an improvement over a cup of coffee. The barista said "how can we start you off?" my mind translated "how can we help you sir." I said "excuse me?" and she repeated what she really said. (no sir)
The happy ending was I was able to order a simple cup of coffee, not celebrate a birthday and get to my meetup on time.
And yes, the lead "barista" apologized for the peeps ahead of me-not mis gendering me-which she didn't anyhow.
